Thursday, November 20, 2008

Kashmir, Day 5: Trek to Nichnai Pass

Sweet Salaam who insisted on carrying Graham on his shoulders, even when he was asleep. Doesn't he have gorgeous blue eyes?
On this day Russell imaginary world transformed him into a cowboy!
Sticks + rocks + water = hours of fun
Today we hiked through a more rocky terrain with lots of wildflowers.
Working on the mountain man beard!
Drinking boiled water with gatorade flavoring while Uncle-jee watches on (+ snow!)
Giddya-up cowboys!
A mama and baby horse!
Stopping to check out the view.
Our destination for the day.



Mr. Ram-jee. Doesn't this guy look like Sean Connery?
After hiking to the falls, we went back home for Uncle-jee the start cooking and for us to hang out with the gypsies and animals for the afternoon.








Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Kashmir, Days 6&7: Things Get Sticky

As we were lounging around the morning of our last day in the mountains, Uncle-jee got a phone call from Mr. Rah telling us to get down the mountain as fast as we could. We weren't sure why at the time, but we bade farewell to our gypsy friends and headed off.
On the way down we met several soldiers in full camouflage down to feathers stuck all over their bodies.
At the base of the mountain we found Mr. Rah himself and his tiny car. On the trip up we had been in a large Land Cruiser, but now the political state of things made it impossible for Mr. Rah to hire that car and driver again. The government had shut down all the businesses, prohibited unnecessary traffic, and imposed a curfew. Apparently we had come home to the largest political disturbance in many years in Kashmir. The Indian government had granted some land to the Hindus for their annual pilgrimmage pit stops and the local Muslims were mad and had taken to the streets with their anger. Here is Mr. Rah looking worried as he talks to his brother Nazir in Delhi while driving us down the deserted streets back to Srinagar.
We had a few scary moments along the way--burning tires in the streets, young adults throwing rocks at our car . . .
We didn't take a lot of photos of these moments, for obvious reasons. But we made it back safely to our houseboat--the Royal Palace on Dal Lake. This time no shikara--they were also prohibited. The sweet houseboat guy Mr. Golam came himself to pick us up in a rowboat.
Then we had 24 hours locked down in our houseboat waiting until we could fly out the next day. Mr. Golam asked us what we'd like to eat, but then hastily added that he didn't have all that much food to offer since he hadn't been able to purchase food for a few days. We told him to make us whatever he had! Graham made a friend on the houseboat while hanging out . . .


We read a lot of books and played a lot of games. The first day I can remember in a long time in which we had absolutely nothing to do. It was very nice.

And after another tense ride to the airport the next day, driving past tanks, burning tires, military guys with machine guns pointed in our faces and lots of angry people . . .

We got to the airport and waited, relieved, for our flight back to Delhi.
Would we do it again? We've asked ourselves that question several times. Every time we consider it, Rich and I both look at each other and say together, "Yes!" Are we crazy? Probably. But Kashmir has an other-worldly beauty that was worth those tense moments at the end there. I wish everyone could go there and see what we mean. But hopefully ALL of these photos have given you a taste of it. Thanks for enduring the travelogue.

Now I'm reading Midnight's Children by Salman Rushdie. A very interesting, subversive, hilarious novel that begins in Kashmir and moves to Agra and then Delhi. I'm not sure where it will take me next, but I love reading about places I've been to, written by authors who have a special gift for capturing the essence and the incomprehensible nature of India. I miss it.

Several nights ago Rich and I were talking about how living in America is different from living in Delhi. We came up with this (likely flawed) comparison together: Living in Delhi is like being manic depressive and living in America is like being on an antidepressant that evens out those extreme highs and lows. We can't say either of us know what being manic or taking an antidepressant feels like, but judging from what we've heard from others, when you take an anti-depressant you feel pretty good all the time, but you don't get the super-highs and super-lows that you get when you're in manic-ville. Some days I feel so happy to feel the even-ness of America. But other days I long for that life where we jumped wildly day to day from wanting to tear our hair out to barely being able to contain our wonder and awe at what we saw and experienced.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Faces

Aditi Charan
Sarah Jordan & Her Mother
Elder & Sister Daniels, full of love, energy & kindness
Sister Vimla Mani with Graham
Ashley Barnes
Tamanna Bhatti, a woman with amazing talents and testimony
Prakash Boddu (or Dumbo, as my kids called him!)
Dominic (Savio)
Carolina Mani, a young woman of faith
Hannah Smith, a very brave girl
Theo
Sonam
Genesis John & Stephanie Mani
Sister Nora Daas
Selvi Stephen
Dolly & Aditi, both women of amazing commitment and love
Karen
Rambir, the most energetic guard I've ever met
Mali-jee (our gardener)
Driver Ramesh with the vacant grin on his face
SK Karmoka, our most faithful guard
Lakshmi the Sweeper & Margaret

Poojah, Margaret, Lakshmi, Shiva & Sunder Raj Family
Margaret

Poojah, who is living in a better place now
Shiva-jee (The Boss)
Amy Klassen, an inspiring and welcoming woman who is in Delhi to stay
President Katuka & Josh Katuka
Sister Katuka
President Praveen Beesa
Elder Bill Jackson
Mrs. Lemley, Isaac's KG Teacher
Diane Pritchett, our surrogate grandma in Delhi
Dave & Angela McIllece
Marcia Ward
Lesley McKay
Michelle Jordan, who understood better than anyone why having a driver sucks
Jung Seon, who made me feel like I was a good mom
Sister Glaris Binu who moved to Kerala
Jacob Binu
Nixon & Nisha John with Nisha's mother Sister Grace
Sisters Tamanna & Vandana Bhatti
The Delhi LDS Gals: Bobette, Me, Michelle, Kerali, Amy & Amber
Chase & Bryce Jordan
Elder & Sister Pulsipher and Sonia Sharma
Maria
Marcia Ward, a woman with superpowers
Alexis, Becky & Marcia
(Prakash) Boddu
Rebecca & Johnson John
Amy Paul & Her Mother
President Barnes & Sister Barnes (sorry, no photo!)
Sister Trija John
The Boys
Sister Winter & Sister Mickelson
Bro. Vaibhav
Ann, who embraced India better than anyone I know in less than a year
Isaac's Russian-American Friend Alayna
Isaac's 1st Grade Class with Mrs. Singh
Isaac's Preschool Teacher
Nikarika Singh, who loved learning
Ellie Joyce, who loved life
Thomas Joyce, who was Isaac's first and best friend
Bro. Charan, the wise and faithful father of Aditi
Bro. Bhatti, Rich's wise and interesting counselor
Joshua John
Twinkle Massey
Bro. Patras Family
Carolina & Her Mother Vimla Mani
Stephanie Mani (watch for this photo of her in The Friend)
Jyoti & Her Sister
Juni Tamanz
Prince (Rajkumar) & His Mother
Vivenly & Anamika Massey

Parul Massey
Selvi (Twinkle)
Amber & Ryan Flake
Kerali & Taryn Reynolds
Shelly Stoker, my shopping buddy
Sweet Rohit

Hukil Family: Roomana, Rohan, Sheila & Sonia

Driver Anil Kumar & Wife Ritu

Robinson Singh

Niharika & Bibiana Singh

Missionaries

Sumit & Komal Yadav

Sister Shoba